Feeling Like I (Finally) Get Myself
// feeling like i (finally) get myself
we repeat cycles because it’s familiar
sometimes growth can be slow,
but it will always be prominent
if we allow it to be
nineteen began with pain and revelation
it was the push,
the change
the transformation
that overwhelmed me
but i allowed it to wash over me
the transfiguration came through the appearance of
music,
photography,
and a new friend
all in the same day
the realization broke me down
sinking me almost to my knees,
as choked sobs and red eyes consumed my body
in a public space for everyone to witness
it occurred me to then
only nineteen days
after my nineteenth birthday
that until that moment
I have always felt alone
displaced, misunderstood,
mistreated, threatened,
forgotten, misdirected
but no longer.
the change immediately took charge
it’s been five months since my transformation,
when you say it out loud it seems like nothing at all
but this is the happiest I’ve ever been
there was time, my art became a burden
it weighed and choked me down,
killing my passion
leaving me like zombie
now I relish and flower
*The opinions and ideas expressed are solely those of the author, and may not reflect the opinions of The Bronx Brand*
Sofie Vasquez is an Ecuatoriana photographer, and writer from the Morrison Soundview part of The Bronx. As a visual artist, Sofie is influenced by the subtle beauties and the stories of the people who live in The Bronx – and is constantly inspired to fully capture that genuine essence and experience from them through her work. The Bronx has something unbeatable, you can’t find anything else like it, not even in other boroughs or places in New York. The greatest thing about The Bronx is how in one street, in one avenue there are just pockets of different cultures, making everywhere in The Bronx so unique because it doesn’t replicate itself – it continues to create new things.
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